They will NEVER understand

People say its selfish to take your own life, it's because they have never been in that type of situation. They never felt like they've been cursed with the gift of life instead of being blessed with it. They never hated waking up every morning knowing they will have to feel the same pain over and over again. People say its an easy way out, but in some cases its the only way out. "God won't put you through anything you can't handle"; Obviously someone can't handle it if they're trying to take their life. Some have epiphanies and decide that the pain will go away, some just say fuck it. Don't say their selfish if you haven't dealt with the pain they're going through. If your loved one decided to take their own life, just know they loved you and couldn't deal with the pain anymore.